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Dear Friend
The Principles of prophet Mohammad do not end with The Marriage Principles. It is followed by The Married Life Principles. Before we analyze the marriages of prophet Mohammad, what kind of married life principles that prophet Mohammad put forward, should be learned.
Married Life Principle - 1
One man asked prophet Mohammad - "O Messenger of Allah! What is the right the wife of one of us has ?''
Prophet replied - "To feed her when you eat, buy her clothes when you buy for yourself and to refrain from striking her on the face, cursing her or staying away from her except in the house."
- This is what prophet Mohammad meant by a married life.
Each of the above points have been extensively discussed by the scholars. Its length and breadth can never be seen in any ideology under the sky.
Married Life Principle - 2
"Whatever you spend will be considered a charity for you, even the mouthful of food you put in the mouth of your wife." - Prophet Mohammad.
- This is the level of intimation that prophet Mohammad advocated, to have with wife.
Married Life Principle - 3
"The perfect of Believers faith wise are the best of them in conduct. And the best of you are the best of you with their women" - Prophet Mohammad.
- Look at the rating of prophet Mohammad on being a best person means being best to wife.
Married Life Principle - 4
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are obedient, and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard." Quran 4:34.
Quran unambiguously puts the responsibility of the family on the shoulders of men and not on women. At the same time, Quran commands a wife to be righteous, obedient and guard their chastity in the absence of their husband.
- This is the kind of married life that prophet Mohammad put before this mankind.
Married Life Principle - 5
"The best women is she who when you look at her, she pleases you, when you command her she obeys you, and when you are absent, she protects her honor and your property." - Prophet Mohammad.
- Prophet Mohammad taught not only about The Best Husband but also about The Best Wife.
What you see is only a few samples from the 100s of Principles of Married life envisaged, practiced and put before this mankind, by prophet Mohammad.
People who scandalize the marriages of prophet Mohammad, when they hear about a second marriage -
- They think that it is just another servant at home.
- They think that it is just another woman at their disposal.
- They think that it is just another woman to impose their will.
- ...
Because, the people who scandalize the marriages of prophet Mohammad, only know what they know and don't know what prophet Mohammad meant by a married life.
The point is -
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he fed her, clothed her, refrained from striking her etc etc.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he had that greatest intimacy with her.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he was The Best of Men by being The Best to his woman.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he was the protector and the maintainer of his woman.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he had The Best Woman as his wife.
- ...
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, then it was based on these kind of 100s of Married Life Principles.
will be continued ...
Dear Friend
The Principles of prophet Mohammad do not end with The Marriage Principles. It is followed by The Married Life Principles. Before we analyze the marriages of prophet Mohammad, what kind of married life principles that prophet Mohammad put forward, should be learned.
Married Life Principle - 1
One man asked prophet Mohammad - "O Messenger of Allah! What is the right the wife of one of us has ?''
Prophet replied - "To feed her when you eat, buy her clothes when you buy for yourself and to refrain from striking her on the face, cursing her or staying away from her except in the house."
- This is what prophet Mohammad meant by a married life.
Each of the above points have been extensively discussed by the scholars. Its length and breadth can never be seen in any ideology under the sky.
Married Life Principle - 2
"Whatever you spend will be considered a charity for you, even the mouthful of food you put in the mouth of your wife." - Prophet Mohammad.
- This is the level of intimation that prophet Mohammad advocated, to have with wife.
Married Life Principle - 3
"The perfect of Believers faith wise are the best of them in conduct. And the best of you are the best of you with their women" - Prophet Mohammad.
- Look at the rating of prophet Mohammad on being a best person means being best to wife.
Married Life Principle - 4
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has made one of them to excel the other, and because they spend (to support them) from their means. Therefore the righteous women are obedient, and guard in the husband's absence what Allah orders them to guard." Quran 4:34.
Quran unambiguously puts the responsibility of the family on the shoulders of men and not on women. At the same time, Quran commands a wife to be righteous, obedient and guard their chastity in the absence of their husband.
- This is the kind of married life that prophet Mohammad put before this mankind.
Married Life Principle - 5
"The best women is she who when you look at her, she pleases you, when you command her she obeys you, and when you are absent, she protects her honor and your property." - Prophet Mohammad.
- Prophet Mohammad taught not only about The Best Husband but also about The Best Wife.
What you see is only a few samples from the 100s of Principles of Married life envisaged, practiced and put before this mankind, by prophet Mohammad.
People who scandalize the marriages of prophet Mohammad, when they hear about a second marriage -
- They think that it is just another servant at home.
- They think that it is just another woman at their disposal.
- They think that it is just another woman to impose their will.
- ...
Because, the people who scandalize the marriages of prophet Mohammad, only know what they know and don't know what prophet Mohammad meant by a married life.
The point is -
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he fed her, clothed her, refrained from striking her etc etc.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he had that greatest intimacy with her.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he was The Best of Men by being The Best to his woman.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he was the protector and the maintainer of his woman.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, he had The Best Woman as his wife.
- ...
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with any woman as a husband, then it was based on these kind of 100s of Married Life Principles.
will be continued ...
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