Friday, March 16, 2012

MAIL - 19 - Part - 18

I Wrote -

Dear Friend

The Manners Principles are followed by The Patience Principles. Before we analyze the marriages of prophet Mohammad, what kind of patience principles that prophet Mohammad put forward, should be learned.

Patience Principle - 1

"The real patience is at the first stroke of a calamity." - Prophet Mohammad.

- Patience is not like you first go out of control (up on any afflictions) and then say I am patient.

Patience Principle - 2

"And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to the patient." Quran 2:155

- A believer should not go panic in case of any kind of fears.
- A believer should not go panic in case of drought/poverty.
- A believer should not go panic in case of loss of wealth.
- A believer should not go panic in case of loss of the life of beloved ones.

He should be patient in all such cases and he will be rewarded by Almighty God.

Patience Principle - 3

Some people asked (something such as money) from prophet Mohammad. He gave to them. Then they asked him again, and he gave to them until he used up what he had.

Then he said, "What wealth I have, I will not hoard from you. Whoever has forbearance, Allah will help him. Whoever tries to be independent, Allah will enrich him. Whoever tries to be patient, Allah will give him patience, and no one is given a better or vaster gift than patience."  - Prophet Mohammad.

- Being patient at the time of afflictions, is a better gift of Almighty God.

Patience Principle - 4

"Amazing is the believer, for whatever Allah decrees for him, it is better for him !
• If he is tested with a bounty, he is grateful for it and this is better for him;
• If he is afflicted with a hardship, he is patient with it and this is better for him." - Prophet Mohammad.
- A believer is in a state of goodness when a good thing happens to him because he is grateful to Almighty God.
- A believer is in a state of goodness when a bad thing happens to him because he is patient.

Patience Principle - 5

"The strong person is not the good wrestler. Rather, the strong person is the one who controls himself when he is angry." - Prophet Mohammad.

What you see is only a few samples from the 100s of Patience Principles that were envisaged, practiced and put before this mankind, by prophet Mohammad.

Simply speaking, people who scandalize the marriages of prophet Mohammad, are ignorant about The Principles of Patience that prophet Mohammad practiced and put forward.

The point is -

- If prophet Mohammad had lived with more than one wife, he had The Best Patience.
- If prophet Mohammad had lived with more than one wife, he was steadfast on exercising patience.
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- If prophet Mohammad had lived with more than one wife, then it was based on these kind of 100s of Patience Principles.

will be continued ...

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